“If you focus on results, you will never change. If you focus on change, you will get results.” ~Jack Dixon (Author)
Looking on Facebook and Twitter, I have been looking over New Year’s Resolutions updates. I ran across this quote as I was looking for inspiration about changes for my own resolutions and wondered, “Why bother to make any New Year’s Resolutions at all?” Afterall, there is plenty of data that shows that resolutions often are doomed to fail.
This has put me more in a Mark Twain mood when it comes to resolutions. Twain once said:
Now is the accepted time to make your regular annual good resolutions. Next week you can begin paving hell with them as usual.
So, this year I have decidednot to have any specific New Year’s Resolutions. I’m not saying that I’m perfect, but I think my approach has changed from previous years. I have learned that I am healthiest when I am doing what makes me happy. So, that is simply how I will try to live this year: by doing as many of those things that make me happy.
For example, each year people wonder how I manage to not gain holiday weight. Answer: I dance, hike, and do yoga. These things make me happy and I don’t have to force myself to excercise by doing them. No going to the gym, pressures to impress, or subscribe to memberships.
Creativity resolution? Scrapbooking makes me happy so I will be doing that this year.
Need to see new things? I will carry my camera around more so I can take new pictures and support my writing and scrapbooking habits.
I’ve got one body and one life and I might as well be happy and creative as I do things. I’ve learned that sometimes you find exactly what you need or have been looking for when you stop trying to impress/please everyone else and just please yourself.
Think about what makes you happy and maybe you will find it already fulfills your desire to create a resolution.
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Rain & Relaxation >> Sunday Sense
~~Langston Hughes (February 1, 1902 – May 22, 1967) American poet, social activist, novelist, playwright, and columnist.
It is a rainy, gray Sunday in Connecticut. Normally, I’m one of those people who complains about rainy days – not thunderstorms (I love those!) – just the days where it’s a steady, slow rain . Sure they are restful, but the cold, damp, and gray ends up making me depressed after a while. The excerpt from the poem, April Rain Song, by Langston Hughes, is one I always think about when it rains. He views rain as something to revel in and something to celebrate.
After some thinking today, I realized that I do actually appreciate a lot about the rain. I took these photos back in 2010 during a rainy day. They show the three things I truly love about a rainy day: the calm, clean feeling after a big storm where everything feels scrubbed down, the way spider webs become like crystal and taffeta art, and the look of the water drops on each blade of grass. Although, I spent much of this day walking around, taking pictures , and getting everything wet except my camera, it was one of my most relaxing days that Autumn. I hope you enjoy the photos:
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